Florence Sarah Pelletier Ely, 79

It is with deep sorrow that we announce the passing of Florence Sarah Pelletier Ely, aged 79, a woman whose life was defined by patience, kindness, humility, and grace.

Florence passed peacefully in her home, just as she had hoped—to remain surrounded by the comfort of familiar walls, pictures, music and memories until she was called home.

She was known for her gentle demeanor, her thoughtful presence, and her ability to make everyone feel seen and valued. The little children among us knew they were seen and heard whenever Florence was around. She valued each little voice, each little hand and loved when she could hold, embrace, teach, comfort and help children find their voice. From a very young age she helped her parents in the home with her younger siblings. This grew into a passion that led to Nursing and later childcare. Her favorite calling was as a mother and grandmother. Her kindness touched countless lives, and her humility was matched only by the grace with which she carried herself through every chapter of life.

Florence was a devoted member of the West Hebron United Presbyterian Church for over 50 years. She cherished worshiping with family and friends, always in reverence to her Creator and guide. Her faith was a cornerstone of her life, and she found great joy in serving her church and community.

A lifelong champion of children’s education and development, Florence began her journey as a nurse in the obstetrics unit, caring for mothers and newborns with tenderness and skill. She went on to teach and nurture her own children and later opened her heart and home to many local children, providing care, guidance, and love. She was a passionate advocate for children’s ministries within her church and tirelessly supported her children’s education, always believing in the power of learning and the importance of nurturing young minds.

Florence also co-managed and owned the Elridge family registered Holstein farm until 1986, where she and her partner in life and business worked side by side with dedication and love. After transitioning to other pursuits, Florence returned to her passion for animal care, serving as a veterinary technician and office support staff at Granville Large Animal Veterinary Services until her retirement in 2006. Her deep respect for animals and her commitment to their well-being were evident in every aspect of her work.

In her later years, Florence found joy in the simple and beautiful things around her. She was an avid gardener, nurturing vibrant blooms and peaceful green spaces. She loved watching birds—especially cardinals and finches—and never missed a sunset, often pausing to admire the colors and reflect on the day. Her appreciation for nature was a reflection of her gentle spirit and deep gratitude for life.

Florence was preceded in death by the love of her life and husband of too few years, Leonard Roscoe Ely; her parents Lester and Evelyn (Wells) Pelletier; her brothers David (Jane) Pelletier and Henry Pelletier; and her sister Yvonne (Ruben) Monroe.

She is survived by her children: Joseph L. (Dasie) Ely, Cynthia A. (Paul) Filliatreault, and Christina E. (Brian) Milliman; and her beloved grandson, the apple of her eye, Evan Wyatt Filliatreault. Florence is also survived by her sister Mary (Mike) Eddy, and several nieces and nephews, all of whom will carry forward her memory with love and pride.

Friends may call from 11:30am to 1:00pm on Tuesday, October 7, 2025, at the M.B. Kilmer Funeral Home, 123 Main Street, Argyle NY 12809. Service will follow after the calling hour at the funeral home.

Burial will follow the service to the Prospect Hill Cemetery in Argyle NY.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Florence’s honor to the West Hebron United Presbyterian Church, reflecting her lifelong commitment to faith, community, and nurturing others.

The family would like to extend their heartfelt gratitude to Florence’s caregivers, whose compassion, dedication, and gentle support brought comfort and peace during her final days. Your kindness will never be forgotten.

Florence’s ability to maintain her independence to the end and remain in the comfort of her home was a gift made possible by the unwavering support of her caregivers and family. The family would like to extend their deepest gratitude to Rosa Zimmerman, Ashley Whipple, Darleen Wood, and Karen Millington for their compassionate care, gentle presence, and dedication throughout Florence’s final years.

Special thanks also go to Arlene Raymond, whose loving attention to Florence’s gardens brought her daily joy and peace. Your kindness and support meant the world to Florence and to all who loved her. The family will forever be grateful for the comfort and dignity you helped provide.